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Christmas again  / Rachel Jackson (sister-in-law)
WOW!  It's almost christmas again. I cant believe it. I wish that you was here to get to see how things are so far.  Brandon is getting so big.. He looks more and more like you everyday.  We miss you so much. I miss your advice and telling me that it will be okay you just got to keep your chin up.. Well I'm not going to lie it has been really hard too.  Well I miss you bub and We all love you so much. Keep the family safe this christmas and new years.
Would've be our 9 yr wedding Anniversery  / Michelle Werner
Hey!
Happy Anniversery! Even though iyour in heaven and i'm here on earth, i want to tell you today is still a hard day for me without you.  Even though i have moved on , It still doesn't mean that our day isn't easy. I go through this with every special occation that we shared, I luv you Jerry Werner !    One day we'll meet again and I can't wait for that day! luv  MIchelle
Brandon's new Trophy!!!  / Michelle Werner
Hey Jerry! Well Brandon got his 1st t-ball trophy, he is so tickled and proud:) He held it up to the window and posed with it smiling for every car that passed by:) LOL He is growing up so quick, where has time gone.  We say a prayer every night and always at the end of it he mentions you, uncle dave gave him a little telescope and he has it on his dresser he tells me its his daddy radar, he makes me take him outside sometimes at night so that he can look at "Our Star".  
 I thought he loved it out here and got a rude awakening, he told me 2 weeks ago he wished we could move and my mouth dropped i asked him why and just said he didn't like it here,  Our neighbors are different from us, they are stuck up and rude sometimes, we are kinda the outties of this place (even though we own this $150,000 home it doesn't matter my attitude will never be acting like i'm better then everybody.) I am so thankful for what I am able to provide for my children .   well i better go for now sorry it's been awhile but brandon has a baby sister now and its been alittle crazy lately.  
I love you and miss you everyday, It wasn't till over a month ago that i got the biggest slap in the face and that is that I started dating j.p when you had just been gone a year, I argued and protested that it had been longer and then realized "I was wrong and it was that soon and i started seeing him".  I am sooooo sorry I don't care what anyone else thinks of me but i do care what you do,  I was going through so much greif and shock that i was didn't know what to do without you , i was lost without you and when i realized it wasn't a joke that you really weren't comeing back i was scared! So i met j.p and he pacified my time , but i told him i wasn't over you and didn't love him like i should, anyway,  thank god he's outta my life , i just wanted to say i'm sorry for that. The only 2 that stood by me and didn't judge me was mom & dad werner, they knew i was lost but they also wanted to find myself and find out things on my own, & i sure did find out, if ound out who my true friends and family were, who cared and who wanted money, & who could talk so sweet to my face and turn around as soon as i leave and talk bad about me.  Unlike them I won't judge, theres a day for that and it's with much higher people,  I was told once never to use my daugters name in the same sentence as you, but anyway, i believe that you and God knew that the only way i would truely move on for our son and myself would be by sending a miricle, well the day Mashayla Grayce Werner was born was the 1st day of a new life for me and my new family (Brandon, myself & mashayla). Since i was told 4 times by 3 different doctors that i couldn't have anymore kids because of my health problems, I believe she was send from heaven:) Brandon loves her to death she's his little babydoll:)   Mom & Dad Werner Have taken her up under there wings as if nothing seperates them, I am so thankful for them, mashayla is attached to mom werner:) They even look alot alike!! LOL well i better go feed my sweeties but I luv you and miss you always and every now and again our song comes on the radio and I get lost in memories and tears but i know its just your way of saying hi!!:)  
Lost / Chris Johnson (Friend)
I am sorry for not writing you as I should have been. I have wanted to but found myself at a loss for words to say to you. Which is totally opposite to the dedicated bond we had with one another openly speak the pure honest truth no matter if feelings were hurt. And we used that honesty between us to get through some of the toughest times we faced. I thank you for allowing me to be regarded by you as a friend, as a brother. I still go by your house, sometimes I stop and replay in my mind what it was like it pull in your driveway and get out . The walk down the path to the steps to your porch dancing across the pavers in the path a certain way every time. I remember that usually before I got to the steps I'd hear "come in Johnson". And as I walked through the door you'd always say "Hey Johnson". Man I would give anything hear those words and see you again. I have been so lost without you. Occasionaly I will spot someone that looks like you from behind and I rush to catch them but they dissapear. I guess I am losing my mind. I want to thank you for coming to help me when I called that day. I wish I'd done things differently then maybe I could have spared you and your family all the pain. It is still hard to face them, to look into their eyes and see the pain. They welcome me with open arms when I see them and they all told me they love me and don't blame me for what happened. And I believe them, but it has been hard for me to understand why things happened the way they did. I sit and play that day through my mind and think of what I could have done different. There were so many different things I could have done that day that would have eliminated the need to call you. People tell me that it wouldn't have changed anything, that something else would have happened, but I can't seem to accept that. Not out of disrespect for their attempt to help me understand. So my constant battle with myself as to why I didn't change one decision. I know that I was in so much pain and frustration from being so stupid that all I was thinking about was you. My selfeshness caused you to make the ultimate sacrifice attempting to help me. If I could I'd switch roles with you. The only thing that helps me at all is that I'd have done the same for you. And I know that in your heart you knew I would too. I miss you man. There isn't a day goes by I don't think about you. I love you
Should've been 10 years together  / Michelle Werner (wife)  Read >>
Should've been 10 years together  / Michelle Werner (wife)
Honey,
The hardest thing last  week was having to tell you Happy Anniverary and you not being here.  I know your with me and B and i still and always keep you in my heart.   All i have done is think about our memories and and how i would still give anything (but our son) to have you back.  Brandon is doing so good (but you see this everyday) He is a singer and a sports addict:) LOL .  His Granny Brown has been watching him while i work and he loves her to death (she's 75 and still kicking) .  I will get blamed for all the real family to him that chooses not to come around him but he will see the truth some day and i won't have to say a thing.  
Brandon went crazy tonight when grandpa shitpot and grandma told him they are coming down in a couple months:) I can't wait to see them either , i miss them so much and they are the only ones i KNOW with no doubt LOVE me back:)      I will talk to you later and see you in my dreams.    P.S.  I luv my new manager job and we got a 100% on are opening inspection:) 

Luv you always and forever
Still and always Mrs. Michelle Werner Close
Emptiness Without You  / Cody Zajac (Nephew)  Read >>
Emptiness Without You  / Cody Zajac (Nephew)
Lately, I've Been having an empty feeling inside knowing your not here to protect me anymore.I was wrong to think such a thing....Because i know that now that your in Heaven you have more power than ever before.Your watching over me your in every cloud,every rain drop,every new flower that blooms your watching over me.Now i no longer have that empty feeling in my heart cause I realize this truth.I love You Jerry,Michelle,and also Baby B Close
Hey / Rachel Jackson (sister-in-law)  Read >>
Hey / Rachel Jackson (sister-in-law)
Well I dont even know where to begin.. Michelle wants katie to come to her house for a year.. WOW a year.. i'm not scared to do it..I just dont think that i could be away from her that long.. I would go insane..but i still have some hardcore thinking to do about it.. God i cant wait til that day I get to see you, cassandra and corey again.. Things here are on ice with me and everyone.. I was watching that Montell show the other day and Sylia Brown was in it.. she said that hevean was only 3 ft from the ground and that we are walking in ur world and that we are ghost to you.. I wonder if that is true or not.. well I should go.. Love you always Rachel&Kids Close
Merry Chrismas  / Michelle (wife)  Read >>
Merry Chrismas  / Michelle (wife)
Honey, Me and B have been down in the dumps lately missing you, We've both been sick and besides that my luck hasn't been great , just had to admit to myself that for the 1st time in my life i'll have to spend it by myself (well me and B) Was suppose to go up north to be with Mom and Dad Werner but because of bad luck it isn't gonna happen, who will i cook a big christmas dinner for this year? Brandon is at that age that he don't eat much at all, as you know we talk to you all the time but at night mostly (brandon calls out for you to the moon and stars still:) We may not have you but thank god we have each other:) I miss you honey so much and if god would let me have one wish it would be to see you one more day, things still aren't the same without you and i ache for you everyday. I have nobody to pamper me when i get ill now and when i found out i had to have surgury it hurt so bad cause you were there all the other times i was ill like this and now i feel so alone and scared ( not for me but for our son). I often wonder if you miss me too, if you still love me as much as i will always love you.  Do you remember our 1st date? New years Eve of 1996:) it was the most romantic night for us :) you ask me to go steady with you and we had a ball:) You and Brandon got drunk and we all danced :) I hope someday i might be able to have fun like that again:)  and Christmas of 1998 (our 1st x-mas being married) we went to mom & dad werners and you all give the best christmas ever, I had never seen so many gifts for me in my life (you all just wanted to give me that and it meant so much, I felt like a little kid opening up all them gifts:) The 1st time i tried to make you a romantic dinner( i cooked steak) lit candles and the steak was so hard you could use it for jerky but you still ate it with a smile :) I have nobody to cook for anymore honey, but i am learning how to cook better:) When i went into labor with brandon and you stayed by my side (the best darn coach ever:) remember when you said i had to push again and i looked at you and asked if we could just do it tomorrow:) You were such a proud papa I will never forget the look on your face the moment that brandon entered this world, it changed us both and from that point on we had the best best moments ever (good memories) I thank god for that everyday. Well I luv you Honey always and Forever and if god is near "God please send this thing i've been expecting in the mail i really need it ok, please dear lord :)  Jerry, tell Big Jon that me and Brandon miss him too so much and i hope he is having tons of fun up there.    Luv you always  Michelle Werner Close
SOX WIN WORLD SERIES  / Aunt Marilyn (Aunt)  Read >>
SOX WIN WORLD SERIES  / Aunt Marilyn (Aunt)
Damn it Jerry !!!
You and I were the only devout SOX fan in the family
You hould have been here on earth to watch it
With every game I said "Where are you Jer, pay attention OUR Close
IN MEMORIAM  / Dad And Diane Werner (Dad & Stepmother )  Read >>
IN MEMORIAM  / Dad And Diane Werner (Dad & Stepmother )
Jerry Lee Werner
In Loving Memory Of Jerry Lee Werner On your 2nd anniversary in Heaven 9/11/1976 8/21/2004 We love and miss you more and more each day that passes. Love Always Dad and Diane
Published in The Times on 8/21/2006.
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